Sometimes I am amazed at how long it takes me to write these blog entries. I’ve been back from my trip to the Dominican Republic for a week and a half now and I’m just getting down to writing about it! It’s something I’m trying to work on, but I’m not perfect, and better late than never right?!
I had an amazing time at Domme Trips this year. It the second year in a row that I have gone and it was honestly like going to a big kinky family reunion! Last year, I spent my time getting to know everyone and having a relaxing vacation. This year, I got to deepen my friendships with those I already knew, as well as hanging out with some awesome new friends!
An example of the silliness. Something was said about not being able to make a baguette hurt, a challenge that SirSoBored took. I caught some of the flying debri and had a snack 🙂
If you don’t know about Domme Trips, it is basically a kinky vacation organized by the fabulous Domina Bellicose and Mistress Absolute, attended by some of the top Dominatrixes in the world, their slaves, and just kinky people in general. If you look at the website, you will see a list of Dominas that are interested in going. Male subs have the opportunity to sponsor the Dominatrix of your choice (if she doesn’t already have someone sponsoring her) and you get the honor of serving her, worshiping her, having play time with her, all while spending relaxing time at the beach during the day and partying it up at night. It is a time for people to let their hair down, be silly, play (in both kinky and non kinky ways). If you have ever envisioned a laid back, kinky vacation with a bunch of awesome people, I highly recommend it! Both Domina Bellicose and Absolute go out of their way to make sure that everyone is taken care of and the work they put into making it happen in mindboggling!
I went with my long time patron, Bob, with whom I also went last year. He is an awesome travel companion and I’m excited about going with him next year as well. He is a switch, so I have the pleasure of being Topped by him and also Topping him! The best scene with him was near the end of the vacation, when Goddess Phoenix and I organized the other Dominatrixes to take turns caning and flogging his bottom. I went back and forth while this was happening, alternately providing him with breath play and a good heel into his balls. Despite constant complaints about the cane being his least favorite implement, he had a nice big smile at the end of it.
Mistress Absolute providing me with some sexy hydration during our needle play scene. Photo by TommyO
I had some amazing scenes there as well. Most notably, I had a very intense needle scene led by Mistress Absolute and The Lady Elizabeth. I had been wanting a scene like this for a long time and had contacted Elizabeth beforehand due to her proficiency in needle play. Tied to a lawn chair by the (deceptively) sweet Eve, I had several “endorphin buttons” ( needles organized to form a circle that when pressed down upon release a wave of endorphins) arranged on my right breast by Lady Elizabeth, while Absolute took to piercing my left breast and stomach. I also had needle down my inner thighs by Mistress Nicolette. And for the final touch they pierced me down my labia, which I had never had done before. I plan on posting the photos as their own blog post because there are so many of them I find beautiful. After the needles were taken out, I was covered in blood, which I found rather erotic and fascinating. I will probably not post those on this blog, but some will find their way to Tumblr for sure.
My ass being handed to me by, well, a hand…
The other scene worth mentioning was something of a milestone. I have this horrible habit, as a masochist, of actively offering Sadists ideas with which to torture me. In this case, I had just negotiated a spanking/paddling scene with Armogeddon when I off handedly made the comment that no one had ever made me call red from just a hand spanking. With massive, muscular hands, Armogeddon just looked at me and said, “Challenge accepted!” I really don’t know why I do things like that. I wasn’t even trying to challenge him, it just slipped out. We went out to the spanking bench, and after a nice warm up he pretty much let me have it. And yes, I did call red. I called red for the first time on a hand spanking. But, to my credit, he left with a bruised hand and admitted that he was about to tap out in a moment if I hadn’t called red. So I still consider it a victory!
And since coming back, I have been thrown back into life in full force. In a couple days I will be traveling to LA for 8 days, from the 9th to the 16th. After that I will staying in Atlanta for a few months in order to remember what life is like when you are not leaving every other week.